here's a newly learnt fact:

a mother's pain
is a child's deprivation
...

understands that.
in being the children of the world you are to:
excell from your own miseries

so you can;
put everything at the back of your mind
accepts the new you,
accepts the past you can never change
nor run from..

then *sigh..
then create a better future
in the pursuit as a better idealised parent

only to be challanged later on
by your children
as of this everchanging world
of ours
...

understands all of those
and you'll be fine
and just perhaps,
you'd find the balance of
happiness.

cuz is just the way the world rotates
and perfection is vain

wassalam'ualaikum